I was leery about posting on here again, seeing as how I usually get flamed right away, but here goes. So anyway i've had a few posts before about possibly dating a friend of mine in my nursing program. But i'm at a point now where I'm just frustrated and lost. I went to her place one day and we hung out all night. We talked for a long time and I eventually worked up the gruff to kiss her a few times. I did tell her that I liked her, so she knows what's up. I had to leave for work after that so not much else happened.

I realize that is pretty sad, but when your a loser like me who's been single for 8 years, its pretty exciting. So I figured I'd wait a few days until she called me. Well she never called, and we saw each other in class the next week. I'm very frustrated and confused at this point. She regularly calls me after class cause we both don't have much to do, and will talk to me for a few mins, she might even ask me what i'm doing, but that's as far as it goes. Its like hot then cold, i dont understand it. She'll show me interest, then she'll ignore me.

And now by this point I'm not calling her anymore and i'm sure i've messed this one up good. Maybe i'm just friend status now, but there is something I dont understand. I told her I liked her, and I made the move for the kiss, and still nothing. So basically what the heck???

The only thing that was strange is that she is very open and talked about her past. She made it a point to talk about sex and she seemed very comfortable with the whole deal. She even asked me if I was goin to jump her bones, then she said she was just kidding. And then the really wierd part was when I went to kiss her she got all shy on me. I was like what is up with that, after the whole conversation about sex. And she tells me that i'm different cause i'm a nice guy.

So anyway, sorry long post, but now i'm lost. We still hang out, we still talk, but I dont know where we are.